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Expectations of Gratitude in Adoption

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Lynelle shares about the burden of being expected to be grateful in being adopted.

Intrusive Interactions

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By Sunny Reed Being a South Korean adoptee in an all-white New Jersey town was tough. Racism was sandwiched between episodic public speculations like “Where are you from? No, where are you really from?” and “What is your REAL name?” Sara Docan-Morgan, professor at the University of Wisconsin, calls those awkward questions “intrusive interactions." Today's …

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The Power of Peer Support

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Lynelle writes critically about the power of peer support in intercountry adoption.

When is adoption NOT in the best interests of the child?

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Where are the rights of adoptees when they are legally "de-twinned" by their adoptive parents? How is this in the "best interests of the child"?

Memories and Feelings of an Older Aged Adoptee

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Being adopted at older ages brings with it more complex issues to sort thru and need specialised support for. Min shares her story as a Thai adoptee.

What is it like to be Adopted?

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Lynelle answers the question What is it like to be adopted? providing insight from her own journey, sharing some common elements many other adoptees speak of.