Category: Adoption Education for Adoptive Parents

Abandoned: its meaning and context

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Andrea Kay helps us uncover the truth beyond the label 'abandoned' with DNA searching—bringing hope and rediscovery to Ethiopian adoptees and their families.

Book Review: Somewhere Sisters & Daughters of the Bamboo Grove

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Lynelle reviews Somewhere Sisters and Daughters of the Bamboo Grove, exploring identity, nature vs. nurture, and the truths of twins separated by intercountry adoption.

What rights should intercountry adoptees have?

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Lynelle writes about the rights that are to be enshrined in law and practice to create a system that upholds justice, transparency and dignity for every adoptee

Racial Abuse & Hatred

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Jonti, adopted from Sri Lanka to Australia shares about racial hatred and abuse and how it impacts.

Addressing Sexual Abuse in Intercountry Adoption

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ICAVs newest Perspective Paper on Sexual Abuse experiences of intercountry adoptees helping to elevate their voices and advocate for much needed supports.

What do I want from my adoptive parents?

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Lynelle shares what she would have wanted from her adoptive parents in response to the fraud and human rights abuses in her adoption.

Returning Home to Greece

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Mary Cardaras shares her thoughts about returning to birth country Greece having been raised and adopted into the USA.

Tips and Suggestions for Returning to Birth Country

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ICAVs newest Perspective Paper offering global tips and suggestions for those considering returning for the first time to their birth country.

The Realities of Adoption and Reunion

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Marta shares the realities of reunion with her Ethiopian family.

In Honour of the time before Adoption Day

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Hollee shares the complexities of life before adoption and balancing the losses and gains through adoption.

USA Virtual Fair

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Lynelle shares the recording of the USA Virtual Fair held on 1 June 2024 showcasing 20 intercountry adoptee led organisation who provide support to adoptees.

Returning to Homeland

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Meseret shares some tips and thoughts for intercountry adoptees considering returning to homeland or birth country, her perspective as an Ethiopian adoptee.

UK Intercountry Adoptees Webinar

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ICAV UK shares a panel of intercountry adoptee answers to questions asked by UK adoptive parents from AdoptionUK via a webinar run on 30 Jan 2023.

How to Truly Save and Help a Child

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Jessica shares the realities of intercountry adoption and what people can do to help a vulnerable child in need, challenging the usual narrative of adoption.

Adopted for 32 years and now FREE!

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Lynelle shares about adoption discharge and fighting for legal justice for the sexual abuse experienced within her adoption and the critical issues this raises.

Navigating Disability and Rare Medical Conditions as an Intercountry Adoptee

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What complex issues do intercountry adoptees living with disability and or a rare disease navigate? We have created a resource to help educate on this topic.

Confirmation that we are born as adoptees

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Hollee shares on the significance of having access to information about our origins as adoptees.

A Question for Adoption Agencies

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Cameron asks adoption agencies how well they are incorporating adoptee voices and adoptee led research into their practice and policy.

Suicide Amongst Adoptees

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Hilbrand shares about the trauma in relinquishment and adoption and the connection with suicide amongst adoptees.

Adoptee Artists

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Art is an incredibly powerful tool to convey the complexities of lived experience in adoption. Here is a compilation of the artwork presented at ICAV.

Ebony at K-Box Adoptee Takeover Night

On By lynellelongIn Adoptee Activism, Adoptee Artists, Adoptee Artwork, Adoptees Educate, Adoption Education for Adoptive Parents, Adoption Education for Professionals, Australia, Complexities in Adoption, Grief and Loss, Haiti, Importance of Connections to Origins, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Origins Search, Therapy, Transracial Adoption, Trauma in AdoptionLeave a comment

Ebony Hickey is a Haitian born intercountry adoptee to Australia whose contemporary artwork we included at the K-Box Adoptee Take Over Night.

Ryan at K-Box Adoptee Takeover Night

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K-Box Take Over Night at the Malthouse Theatre, 9 Sept 2022 highlighting adoptee artist Ryan Gustafsson, Korean adoptee and academic.

Adoptee Review of Ra Chapman’s K-Box Play

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by Kayla Curtis, Korean adoptee raised in Australia, social worker and counsellor specialising in adoption. I want to share some reflections from going along to the K-Box Adoptee Takeover Night at the Malthouse and seeing Ra Chapman's K-Box play in Melbourne, Australia on 9 September. Personally, I am feeling an excitement from seeing K-Box because …

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