What Intercountry Adoption Teaches us about Surrogacy

Presented by Lynelle Long on Saturday 22 August 2026 Speaker 3 in the panel: The Ethics of Surrogacy - An International Perspective Hello all and a huge thank you to Jo and Lily from ARMS for inviting me to be a part of your conference today! When we discuss surrogacy, the conversation usually begins with …

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Belonging: The Lifelong Question Many Adoptees Cannot Answer

Lynelle discusses why so many intercountry adoptees struggle to feel they belong? A powerful personal reflection on identity, family, race, loss and finding belonging.

Child of their Time, Film Review

Lynelle reviews Child of their Time, a documentary exploring estrangement, male adoptee voices, adoptive fathers, family pain, apology and the need for support.

Adoptee Fear of Being Alone

A Sri Lankan adoptee Jonti reflects on abandonment trauma, the fear of losing family, and healing through therapy, peer support and community connection.

Beyond Adoption: Human Rights, Family Separation and Accountability

Lynelle calls for a new child and family rights system that preserves identity, family, culture, truth, belonging and accountability for all families.

Conversations Across Adoption – Part 5

Adoptee Lynelle and adoptive parent Kristin reflect on reunion, first families, identity, grief, and the responsibilities created through adoption.

Growing Up Between Worlds as a Transracial Adoptee and Third Culture Kid

Rachel, a Nepalese transracial intercountry adoptee and Third Culture Kid reflects on race, belonging, identity, privilege, and growing up between cultures and worlds.

Why Hague Convention States must take responsibility for  post adoption costs

Lynelle argues Hague States must address post-adoption costs, regulating services, ensuring accountability, and preventing exploitation of adoptees.

Adoption Across a Lifetime: Why Reform Must Move Beyond the Child-Centric Lens

Lynelle's opening keynote on intercountry adoption, exploring identity, lifelong impacts, and the urgent need to reform systems beyond a child-centric lens.

Rethinking “harm” in intercountry adoption

Explores the emotional harm of intercountry adoption, where wrongdoing is acknowledged but justice remains out of reach for adoptees.

Restoring Identity for Intercountry Adoptees

Lynelle calls on States to restore identity, nationality, records, family ties, and allow adoption reversal where chosen as a matter of justice.

Crying out your name

A poignant song by Haitian adoptee, Sabine, in Quebec exploring separation, identity, two families, and enduring love between mother and child across distance.

Intercountry adoptees taking legal action and reclaiming our rights

Intercountry adoptees worldwide are taking legal action to expose illegal adoptions, demand truth, and push for justice, accountability, and human rights reform.

Adoptee Advocacy

Lynelle's reflection on turning pain into purpose through adoptee advocacy—healing, empowerment, and transforming systems with collective lived experience.

Self Reflections

Hannah reflects as a Russian Asian intercountry adoptee on identity, belonging, loss, and the emotional complexities of adoption.

Finding Myself and a Purpose

Mike grew up in New Zealand, adopted from Hong Kong. He struggled as a young child, found his place in the world, and now gives back, to others like him.

What rights should intercountry adoptees have?

Lynelle writes about the rights that are to be enshrined in law and practice to create a system that upholds justice, transparency and dignity for every adoptee

What I’ve missed out on in being adopted internationally

Jonti shares his journey of exploring what his losses have been in being intercountry transracially adopted from Sri Lanka to Australia.

The need for a national investigation into the role of the Australian governments in our intercountry adoption history

Lynelle discusses why its time to investigate the past of Australia's intercountry adoptions and look into the role our governments have played.

The importance of engaging adoptees in the design and ownership of post adoption support services

Lynelle shares on the importance of engaging adoptees in the design and ownership of post adoption support services, presented at the Hague forum in Nov 2024

The demand for adoptee peer support is strong

Lynelle shares about the global demand of peer support for intercountry adoptees, recognising the wealth of expertise within the community.

The most invisible adoptees

Lynelle raises awareness of those intercountry adoptees who are incarcerated, an unheard voice.

Why I am relieved that China terminated its adoption program

Cindy shares her thoughts as a Chinese adoptee about the closure of China's intercountry adoption program announced late 2024.