The Aloneness of Motherloss

Mila Konomos articulates the aloneness of mother loss, the grief and loss an adoptee lives due to being separated at birth.

Peruvian Adoptee Returns to Birth Country

Milagros Forrester shares with ICAV about her return trips to Peru and how it impacted her search for identity and belonging.

Cancelling My Adoption

Netra Sommer is adopted from India to Denmark and endured abuse in her adoption and talks about undoing her adoption and the lengthy process to reclaim herself.

Adoptee Dualities

Abby explores the complex dualities adoptees face, from identity and family connections to cultural struggles, highlighting the emotional toll of navigating adoption experiences.

Dear Dad, You are Still Racist

Mae adopted from Haiti shares the complexities of being trafficked and having a racist dad

Who Am I?

Vietnamese adoptee TLB shares about living with disability, being rehomed, and loss.

Lived Experience Suggestions for Responses to Illicit Adoptions

ICAVs newest Perspective Paper: How Authorities and Bodies could Respond to Illicit Adoptions

The Legacy and Impacts of Abuse in Adoption

Lynelle's part 2 of 3 on Sexual Abuse within Adoption.

Review: One Child Nation

Lynelle shares her thoughts about One Child Nation documentary.

Questioning

Abby reflects on curiosity, identity, trauma, and the importance of questioning societal norms and systems, while seeking healing and understanding.

I Don’t See Colour!

ICAV Blogger Collaborative Series #2 addressing adoption colour blindness.

Identity, Lost & Found

Abby reflects on reclaiming her Latina identity after growing up in a white Jewish family, highlighting the impact of adoption practices on self-worth and cultural connection.

Digging in the Dirt

Abby emphasizes the importance of post-adoption services for healing adoption trauma, highlighting the need for community support, therapy, and resources to thrive.

Adoptee Activism in America

Lynelle shares about the importance of including adoptee lived experience at the Adoption Symposium for the US Department of State in 2020.

Celebrating Secrets and Sadness

Adoptee birthdays are a day of celebrating secrets and sadness, a complex day of emotions reminding us we are not with the ones who birthed us.

When Pain and Loss is Too Much

Indian adoptee Pooja shares the challenges of her complex life being adopted to Australia.

The Push-Pull Dance in Adoptee Relationships

Lynelle discusses the difficulties in relationships as an intercountry adoptee and why is love so difficult: attachment, bonding, connection and adoption.

Expectations of Gratitude in Adoption

Lynelle shares about the burden of being expected to be grateful in being adopted.