Webinar, Perspective Paper and Resources
On 23 November, ICAV ran a webinar with 6 incredible panelists sharing lived experience as intercountry adoptees with disability and rare medical conditions.
I hope you will take the time to have a listen. Adoptees with disability and medical conditions are often invisible amongst the intercountry adoptee community and our goal was to elevate them and help to raise awareness of the extra complexities they experience.
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Webinar Video Timecode
For those who are time poor, I have provided a time code so you can see exactly the parts you wish to hear.
00:00:25 Welcome – Lynelle Long
00:03:51 Acknowledgement of Country – Mallika Macleod
00:05:15 Panelists Introduction
00:05:31 Maddy Ullman
00:07:07 Wes Liu
00:09:32 Farnad Darnell
00:11:08 Emma Pham
00:12:07 Daniel N Price
00:13:19 Mallika Macleod
00:15:19 The changing definition of disability – Farnad Darnell
00:17:58 Reframing how adoptees with disability can be viewed – Mallika Macleod
00:20:39 Processing the shame and brokenness often associated with being adopted and living with disability – Wes Liu
00:23:34 Dealing with people’s reactions and expectations – Maddy Ullman
00:28:44 Sense of belonging and how it has been impacted – Emma Pham
00:30:14 Navigating the health care system – Daniel N Price
00:31:58 What helped to come to terms with living with disability – Mallika Macleod
00:35:58 How disability might add some extra complexities in reunion – Maddy Ullman
00:39:44 The dynamics between adoptive parents and what is ideal – Wes Liu
00:42:48 Preventing the risk of suicide – Daniel N Price
00:44:26 Children being sent overseas via intercountry adoption because of their disability – Farnad Darnell
00:47:09 What people need to consider when starting off adopting a child with disability with “good intentions” – Emma Pham
00:50:13 How the experience of feeling isolated changed over time – Wes Liu
00:53:25 The role of genetics in her conditions – Maddy Ullman
00:56:35 What worked when facing employment challenges – Mallika Macleod
00:59:11 Becoming self sufficient and independent – Emma Pham
01:02:42 Suggestions for adoptive parents – Daniel N Price
01:03:48 Suggestions for adoption professionals to better prepare adoptive parents – Farnad Darnell
01:06:20 How adoptive families can best discuss whether disability was the reason for relinquishment – Farnad Darnell
Summary of Key Messages from the Webinar
Click here for a pdf document outlining the key messages from each panelist and the matching webinar video timecode.
ICAV Perspective Paper
For those who want to dive deeper and explore this topic further, we have also compiled our latest ICAV Perspective Paper which you can read here. It is a collation of lived experience perspectives offering a rare view into the lives of a dozen intercountry adoptees who live with disability and rare medical conditions. Together, these resources of the webinar and perspective paper fill a huge gap in knowledge about this subset within the intercountry adoptee community. I hope this instigates the beginning of further discussions and forums designed to help raise awareness and create better supports for and within the community.
I want to raise extra attention that within the in-depth sharing of our perspective paper and the webinar, those who contributed made numerous mentions of the heightened risk of suicide, depression, and isolation. We need to do more to better support our fellow adoptees who are most vulnerable living with disability and medical conditions.
If you have any additional resources that can help build upon what we have started, please contact ICAV or add your comment to this post, so I can continue to grow this list below.
Additional Resources
Rare Disease
#Rareis : Meet Daniel N Price – a rare disease advocate and intercountry adoptee
With Love August (intercountry adoptee August Rocha, a disabled trans man with rare disease)
Diagnostic Odysseys featuring August Roche (disabled trans intercountry adoptee with rare disease)
Disability x Adoption on The Janchi Show (podcast)
Once Upon a Gene – Rare disease intercountry adoption with Josh and Monica Poynter (podcast)
#Rareis: Nora’s Forever Home – a rare disease domestic adoptee
Rare in Common (documentary of those affected by rare disease)
LGBQTi and Rare Disease resources
Enola : an application by Medical Intelligence One that helps diagnose Rare Diseases, freely avail
One Rare – Young Adults Impacted by Rare Disease and Transitioning to Adulthood
Rare Diseases Clinical Research Network
Global Genes – Allies in Rare Disease
EveryLife Foundation for Rare Diseases
Syndromes Without A Name (SWAN)
Disability
Adoptees with Disabilities (FB group)
International Adoptees with Disabilities (FB group)
Neurodivergent Adoptee (FB page by intercountry adoptee Jodi Gibson Moore)
We all have the power – Marusha Rowe (cerebral palsy advocate and intercountry adoptee)
Violence, Abuse, Neglect & Exploitation of Adoptees with Disability : Australian Disability Royal Commission submission by ICAV
Invisibility(ies) Session Five (video, led by domestic adoptee Nicole Rademacher who interviews adoptee artists Anu Annam, Jessica Oler, and Caleb Yee exploring how their art relates to their disability)
A Disability Primer: Reclaiming, Imagining, Creating Change (Conference recording, Nov 2022)
Unfixed – sharing stories of those living with chronic illness and disability
Chronically Capable – for job seekers with chronic illness and disabilities
Transitions of Care – Child Neurology (helping you transition from paediatric to adult care)
The Caregiver Series (videos, for adoptive parents)
Sing Me a Story (Stories and Songs for kids in need)
Watershed DNA (support and guidance to help those understand their DNA results)
Easterseals Disability Film Challenge (changing the way the world views and defines disability)
Familial Fitness: Disability, Adoption, and Family in Modern America