Tag: grief and loss

From Silence to Self: An Adoptee’s Song

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Cao shares a song written across decades, exploring search, grief, identity, and healing after loss, silence, and self-acceptance.

What I’ve missed out on in being adopted internationally

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Jonti shares his journey of exploring what his losses have been in being intercountry transracially adopted from Sri Lanka to Australia.

Grief in Adoption

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Cosette shares deep feelings of grief during her life, coming to terms with all she's lost and might never know. Being adopted means living deep grief.

Ebony at K-Box Adoptee Takeover Night

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Ebony Hickey is a Haitian born intercountry adoptee to Australia whose contemporary artwork we included at the K-Box Adoptee Take Over Night.

Adoptee Review of Ra Chapman’s K-Box Play

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by Kayla Curtis, Korean adoptee raised in Australia, social worker and counsellor specialising in adoption. I want to share some reflections from going along to the K-Box Adoptee Takeover Night at the Malthouse and seeing Ra Chapman's K-Box play in Melbourne, Australia on 9 September. Personally, I am feeling an excitement from seeing K-Box because …

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My Adoption Day Is An Anniversary of Loss

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Mary shares how Adoption Day anniversary can trigger feelings of grief and loss that pervade her life; coming to terms with it, making the most of life now.

The Aloneness of Motherloss

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Mila Konomos articulates the aloneness of mother loss, the grief and loss an adoptee lives due to being separated at birth.

What Would it Take to Choose to Parent Me?

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by Cam Lee Small, adopted from South Korea to the USA, therapist at TherapyRedeemed. Not all children get to ask this question before they become adoptees. And not all expectant mothers get a chance to answer. I know there are so many kinds of circumstances represented in our community, even as you’re reading this and …

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