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Caught in the Middle

On March 19, 2022March 18, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Katya shares her complex feelings about the current crisis in the Ukraine and Russia as an intercountry adoptee with connections to both countries.

The Significance of Adoptee Eyes

On March 16, 2022March 16, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Korean Australian adoptee Alexis Bartlett shares her digital art project exploring adoptee stories. In this piece, Alexis portrays the significance of our eyes.

Kris shares about Adoptee Anger

On March 3, 2022February 21, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Kris shares about the experience as a Late Discovery Adoptee and feelings of anger, exploring this emotion and how it can be harnessed to push for change.

Anonymous shares about Adoptee Anger

On March 1, 2022March 1, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Anonymous shares as a Chinese adoptee about anger, her journey of coming to terms with what has created her life and what has helped her deal with her anger.

Kyleigh shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 27, 2022February 21, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Kyleigh shares as a Colombian about Adoptee Anger, feeling different, the pain of not being understood, the structures that promote adoption as a solution.

JD shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 25, 2022February 18, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

JD shares as a Filipino adoptee about anger: anger for the abuse, the lies, the rejection, the impacts and lack of supports.

Ofir shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 23, 2022February 21, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Ofir shares as a Colombian adoptee about her anger, feeling displaced, misunderstood, having no-one to connect with or speak to in the same language.

Gypsy shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 21, 2022February 18, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Gypsy shares about her adoptee anger which comes from the billion dollar private infant adoption industry that sells adoptees to the highest bidder.

Ande shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 19, 2022February 18, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized1 Comment

Ande shares about Adoptee Anger as a Late Discovery Adoptee thru' the ICAV series that explores what this emotion is about from a lived experience perspective.

Andrea shares about Adoptee Anger

On February 17, 2022February 16, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Andrea shares her experience of feeling angry as an adoptee because of the racism and lack of support at school.

So Much Loss in Adoption

On February 13, 2022February 6, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

by Maars, taken from the Philippines to Canada. You can follow Maars @BlackSheepMaars I have been researching my roots for the last 3.5 years. When I first started this journey, I had nothing but scribbled memories of moments that provided places and names. Mostly by things I've overheard growing up when my family would speak …

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Accepting Responsibility as An Adoption Facilitator

On February 8, 2022February 8, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized1 Comment

Jessica shares on the legal case against the traffickers of Namata, European Adoption Consultants (EAC). Great to see justice happening but long overdue!

The Complexities of Adoption

On February 4, 2022January 31, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

백현숙 (Baek Hyun Sook) shares the memories evoked each year remembering the transition into adopted life. The complexities, the emotions growing up and learning the truth.

What Happens After Reunion?

On January 30, 2022January 17, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized2 Comments

Matthew Pellegrino shares some realities of life after reunion for an intercountry adoptee, hoping to challenge the "happily ever after" myth of adoption.

Bought and Sold, This is Adoption!

On January 26, 2022January 26, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized1 Comment

Lina does not sugarcoat what adoption is, from her lived experience she was bought and sold. Let's be honest when we talk about adoption.

My View of Adoption has Changed with Time

On January 22, 2022January 17, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized1 Comment

Maria shares how her views and understanding of adoption have changed over time as she's connected herself more to the adoption community and educated herself.

The Pope Shaming People into Adopting Children

On January 18, 2022January 19, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Cameron Lee rightly questions the assumptions Pope Francis makes about adoption and shaming parents who are childless into adopting a child.

25 Years in the Netherlands

On January 14, 2022January 5, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Jowan shares writings about being in the Netherlands for 25 years, the connections with homeland in South Korea and the adjusting to a new life and identity.

Pain of Loss and the Joy at Seeing her Reunified with her Family

On January 9, 2022January 10, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized4 Comments

Jessica Davis shares her grief from returning her Ugandan daughter back to her biological family but also the joy at seeing them together. Adoption is complex.

What I Lost When I Was Adopted

On January 4, 2022July 25, 2022 By Desiree MaruIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Stephanie shares questions and thoughts about the complex path traversed to come to integrate losses and gains into a sense of identity as a Filipino adoptee.

A Vigil for Christian Hall, 1 Year On

On December 31, 2021December 31, 2021 By lynellelongIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

An online vigil, 30 Dec 2021, in honour of Christian Hall, adopted from China to the USA, shot to death by police during a mental health episode.

Confronting my greatest fear led to my best discovery!

On December 9, 2021November 22, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Sharinda shares her emotional journey this year in discovering her Sri Lankan mother is alive and eager to meet her. Sharinda will film this in a documentary.

A Journey in Re-defining My Identity

On November 27, 2021November 22, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized2 Comments

Maya Fleischmann shares her complex journey to find her identity as a person born in Hong Kong but adopted transracially into a Jewish Russian family.

Spending Thanksgiving on My Own

On November 25, 2021July 29, 2022 By Desiree MaruIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Desiree shares the ups and downs of being single as an adoptee, being alone especially in those key holiday times like Thanksgiving or Xmas.

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