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Tag: adopted from India

India Abandoned Me

On April 15, 2022March 26, 2022 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Kris shares as an Indian adoptee after listening to a podcast on why India's orphans are abandoned twice -- but for international adoptees, its three times.

Integrating the Parts in Adoption

On September 8, 2021September 3, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Bina shares about the fragmentation adoptees endure in order to survive and the grief work we must do to reintegrate our dual selves.

The Unaware Adoptee

On June 2, 2021May 27, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Krishna shares what it feels like to find out about being adopted years later, the secrets and lies, the impacts. Late discovery intercountry adoptee.

Don’t Tell Me to be Grateful

On April 27, 2021April 20, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized1 Comment

Naomi shares the challenges she's experienced and rightfully questions why adoptees are expected to feel grateful for their lives.

Adopted from India to Belgium

On March 14, 2021March 8, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Annick shares her thoughts on being adopted from India, marrying another adoptee, having a child of her own.

Forget Your Past

On November 28, 2020February 12, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

by Bina Mirjam de Boer adopted from India to the Netherlands.Originally shared at Bina Coaching. Forget your past! I was told this sentence 5 years ago today, when I visited one of my children's homes for the 2nd time. The woman who received me wasn't interested in my questions about my past and didn't even …

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Imagine Losing Your Parents Twice!

On November 19, 2020February 12, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn Uncategorized2 Comments

by Bina Mirjam de Boer adopted from India to the Netherlands. It was October 10, 1990. "Imagine" by John Lennon played on the radio. I heard my adoptive mom on the phone tell my sister that our father passed away.... 14 years and orphaned again.My adoptive father suddenly died because of a medical mistake after …

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LION Review by ICAV

On February 5, 2017September 20, 2021 By lynellelongIn Uncategorized4 Comments

Lynelle writes her thoughts after watching the film LION, about Saroo adopted from India after being a lost child.

Intercountry Adopted into Same Race Family

On March 12, 2015February 6, 2024 By lynellelongIn Adoptees Educate, Critical Thinking in Adoption, Is adoption the best option, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Politics of Adoption, Same Race Intercountry Adoption, Unique adoptionsLeave a comment

Prema shares her story of same race intercountry adoption, the complexities of adoption. Adopted from India to the USA.

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