Category: Adoptees are not blank slates

Wearing Your Fate

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Bina shares on what can be learned from adoption and surrogacy.

What’s in a Name? Identity, Respect, Ownership?

On By lynellelongIn Adoptee Anger, Adoptee Names, Adoptees are not blank slates, Adoptees Educate, Adoption Education for Adoptive Parents, Adoption Education for Professionals, Complexities in Adoption, Importance of Connections to Origins, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Listen to Adoptees, Multiple Identities, Not Knowing in Adoption, Sense of Belonging4 Comments

ICAV members share their thoughts on Changing Names at Adoption

Alternatives to Adoption?

On By Guest BloggerIn Adoptee Activism, Adoptees are not blank slates, Adoptees Educate, adoption conversations, Adoption Conversations, Adoption Education for Adoptive Parents, Adoption Education for Professionals, Adoption policy, adoption reform, Alternatives to Adoption, Critical Thinking in Adoption, Is adoption the best option, Listen to Adoptees, Politics of Adoption, Rights in Adoption, Transracial Adoption, Trauma in Adoption1 Comment

ICAV Blogger Collaborative Series #3

Adopted as Infants

On By Guest BloggerIn Adoptee vulnerability, Adoptees are not blank slates, Adoptees Educate, Adoption Attachment, adoption conversations, Adoption questions, Biological Connections Matter, Complexities in Adoption, Critical Thinking in Adoption, Difficult discussions in adoption, Finding biological mother, first family separation, Forced separation, Generational trauma, Gratitude in Adoption, Importance of Connections to Origins, Is adoption the best option, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Not Knowing in Adoption, Origins Search, Transracial Adoption, Trauma in Adoption1 Comment

ICAV Blogger Collaborative Series #1 for NAAM 2019

You Can’t Counsel Yourself into Belonging

On By julietteviaIn adoptee emotional burden, Adoptee vulnerability, Adoptees are not blank slates, Adoptees Educate, Adoption Conversations, adoption conversations, Adoption questions, Aloneness, Isolation, Biological Connections Matter, colourblindness in adoption, Complexities in Adoption, Critical Thinking in Adoption, denial gaslighting minimisation by others, Difficult discussions in adoption, Diversity in Adoption, Importance of Connections to Origins, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Listen to Adoptees, Peer support, Politics of Adoption, Racial Mirrors, Racism in Adoption, Sense of Belonging, Transracial Adoption, Trauma in Adoption4 Comments

Juliette shares her thoughts after watching Red Table Talk episode featuring Angela Tucker, transracial adoptee.

What is in our “Best Interests” as Intercountry Adopted People?

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A collection of adoptee thoughts on "Best Interests of the Child" should mean.

Not My Adopted Child!

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Juliette shares about how adoptive parents can't see the reality of their own adopted child.

Adoptee Body Keeps Score

On By julietteviaIn adoptee emotional burden, Adoptee vulnerability, Adoptees are not blank slates, Adoptees Educate, adoption conversations, Adoption Education for Adoptive Parents, Adoption questions, Aloneness, Isolation, colourblindness in adoption, Complexities in Adoption, Difficult discussions in adoption, Forced separation, Generational trauma, Lifelong Impacts of Adoption, Listen to Adoptees, Not Knowing in Adoption, Racial Mirrors, Relationships Struggles, Sense of Belonging, Survival mechanisms, Transracial Adoption, Trauma in AdoptionLeave a comment

Juliette Lam shares about the adoptee experience of our body knowing the truth of our traumas.