Category: Adoptee Intimate Relationships

Cut Chilli Melbourne Community Event

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ICAV’s Cut Chilli Melbourne event brought adoptees together through theatre, food and a panel exploring identity, family, belonging and lived experience.

Adoption is a lifelong process

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Lynelle presents that adoptees need informed, compassionate and lifelong support as they navigate identity, belonging and the complexities of living between two worlds.

Belonging: The Lifelong Question Many Adoptees Cannot Answer

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Lynelle discusses why so many intercountry adoptees struggle to feel they belong? A powerful personal reflection on identity, family, race, loss and finding belonging.

Love, Relationships, and the Impact of Adoption

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Jonti reflects on how adoption trauma shaped his relationships, emotional reactions, and journey toward growth.