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Tag: realistic expectations of searching

Forget Your Past

On November 28, 2020February 12, 2021 By Guest BloggerIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

by Bina Mirjam de Boer adopted from India to the Netherlands.Originally shared at Bina Coaching. Forget your past! I was told this sentence 5 years ago today, when I visited one of my children's homes for the 2nd time. The woman who received me wasn't interested in my questions about my past and didn't even …

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